Living life frame by frame, not worrying about what the future holds.
Read MoreThis month, I’m working on presence. I want to give my undivided attention to the things I set out to do. I want my presence known at my place of work, as well as the podcasting world. I want to cherish the moments I spend with friends and family, understanding that the time spent is not only special, but also finite. I want to reengineer my thinking so I have the presence of mind to differentiate decisions that affect now vs. later. All in all, I just wanna live life frame-by-frame and not worry so much about the entire plotline.
Read MoreIn college, you went above and beyond to position yourself for success, but things don’t seem to be clicking the way you had hoped. We all perceive ourselves as the main character, so is it possible that you’re the right person in the wrong situation? Could it be that you are capable, efficient, and communicative but for reasons out of your control, you don’t mesh with the team or subject matter?
Read MoreIn your eyes, what’s more important for your work or creative output? Is it a dedicated workspace? Is it based on the way you feel? Let’s say you wake up hella lethargic. Are you fucked for the rest of the day, doomed by the lack of sleep and unable to think clearly? Or perhaps your office chair has an annoying creaking noise that the most powerful WD-40 couldn’t fix?
Read MoreHow often do you look at your story views? Or count the likes on your latest post? Even covet fits on the street? We are creatures of comparison and that has only been exacerbated by the advent of social media. Even without being in the “public eye” like some of the internet’s biggest stars, we’re all on display one way or another. It’s your approach and how you choose to view it that will lead to clarity.
Read MoreNot to toast your eyeballs with a flaming hot take, but golf is a pretty expensive hobby. The thought of spending hundreds and maybe thousands of dollars on a sport that I’m still trying to even look like I know what I’m doing is scary. So why would I do it?
Read MoreFor me, in the early days, house & trance were used primarily as uplifters. I would throw on a playlist chalk-full of bangers to prepare to train or before a race. I’d queue some shit up when I was 16/17 at a party to rally the troops. It was a relationship fueled with chaotic energy. As time progressed, that changed tremendously.
Read MoreKinda like doing acid at a dog park without bringing a dog.
Read MoreWe spend a considerable amount of time pondering ways to break ourselves from routine. Spontaneity is often seen as the root of happiness, as if the world is aligning and purely random acts of kindness, care, or excitement mean that we are truly riding the wave. Could we be more intentional about these things instead of leaving them up to chance? What if instead of the dreaded “routine”, we set positive reinforcers in place to perpetuate good habits and productivity?
Read MoreIf I told you this past year has been tough, I would not be telling you anything you did not already know. What seems to save us through these times are our peers. Every day you encounter these people and, although you may know their name, you may not know who they are. Who they are transcends the classroom (or the zoom room) and lies at the heart of the person.
Read MoreYeah I’m losing my hair. Slowly, but surely. It’s not like clumps of it are falling out in the shower, but as someone who spends a considerable amount of time looking at themself in the mirror, it’s safe to say the prophecy will be fulfilled. It was written in stone in ancient Mesopotamia: most men will experience some form of hair loss, and there’s no escaping it. Could it all be a matter of perspective?
Read MoreWelp, it’s time to talk about something I’m NOT so great at: managing anxiety. Past generations would have just rubbed some dirt into it, maybe went and played stickball in the backyard and beat up the foreign kid. Our generation took a much different approach. One of acceptance, awareness, and transparency (probably some other things, too). Bringing these things to light has created a culture of change, but it has also led to some unintentional blunders as well.
Read MoreBig time IMO: anger is a projection of some internal shit. It could be something irking you or something you haven’t worked through to completion. Those parasitic thoughts refusing to evaporate without the proper attention. Digging deep and reflecting to conquer these demons is no small task.
Read MoreI’ve been in many different environments and living situations over the last year, but if there’s one commonality between all of them, it’s that I rarely interact with strangers anymore. You don’t realize how good something is until you don’t have it, and as it turns out, surrounding yourself with people you don’t know is incredibly meditative and borderline crucial.
Read MoreCaptain Jack Sparrow had Yo Ho and Ponce de León prolly vibed to the fiddle or some shit while he was exploring. Barry & Graham just bump Future when they ride into battle.
Read MoreOG contributor Lorenzo chronicles his nostalgic ways through musical reminiscence. The power of music takes us back to those special moments. Lorenzo details how to use that power for good and for growth
Read MoreAfter a year hiatus from New York, I’m back in the mix. However, things are quite different for yours truly. It’s a new place with unfamiliar surroundings and spread-out homies. This is definitely not the New York I left behind, but the city continues to be vibrant through unbelievable turbulence.
Read MoreA time to shift focus into commitment. When you emerge from one cramped space, you are often met with another. It's our mission to fully commit to each crevice in hopes to eventually break through.
Read MoreHappy Valentine's Day. Pimping? Simping? All the above.
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